An inconsiderate, arrogant, uncaring, selfish, borderline sadistic, apathetic, mean, spiteful, dishonorable, bastard of a man who could tempt the Pope into a fight.
Same for women.
The takeaway here is that it's up to you, not some old-school dating etiquette.
Description: Contrary to some backwards beliefs, you don't have to allow your date to dominate the conversation or dictate your every move. They were deep and perplexing, enticing since I loved a challenge.